We get it, you wanted attention and the best way you could do it was through negatively criticizing someone elses culture or nation to seek validation or confirmation (even if its negative) on your low self-esteem needs without having to feel any repercussion so the best way was to criticize people of other culture, nationality or race. The Best and Worst Things About Living in Japan - Tofugu I no expert, but rape rates need to be taken with caution, as there are very strong barriers for victims to go to the police. I lived in Tokyo for a year and often travel there but I could not live there full time for many of the reasons you say. >>> So, did you come to Japan ? Although I enjoy cooking, and Id like to think I look and smell pretty good, Im definitely not happy because of my favourite make-up. There are lots of reasons to consider a move abroad: work, school, moving with family or following love. Because tatoo is a choice. I know how they are, and dont need them to build my own little private paradise. This is my observation. Just wanted to add that when it comes to the billion dollar beauty industry overwhelming us with ads & images of what a woman should be we are not immune in the US. Japan Relocation: Top 10 Reasons to Move to Japan - Kokusai Express Japan This is her experience and shes entitled to it. I will cite your post when I write to Tokyo Metro Government to complain about the posters in the subway. NO FOREIGNERS ALOUD. There are many reasons to move to Japan. I just returned from my second trip to Tokyo and I am conflicted about my feelings. Regardless of the reason for your move, though, calling a new country home is a huge decision. Good luck. They dismiss the kink culture as uniquely Japan but no one has ever delved deeper into the background. Browse below for inspiration: Interesting read on so many levels. If North America looks like this.Japan looks like this.It's not recommended to use cars for urban or intercity travel. The scenery is majestic. Maybe the US Rustbelt is now a hot destination? I know its hard but sometimes we have to accept the world as it is. MY 1st experience was okay.. the 2nd was horrible (right before pandemic!). I spent a month there for work and absolutely hated it. i mean, the akihabara thing is probably not spread all across the japan, its limited only to this neighborhood and only to people who want to go there. You feel the need to throw dirt on others but not realize how messed up your own country is, do you know the amount of porn USA churns out every year, its a number most other countries can never match. Romanticizing foreign cultures. LiterallyIm still shuddering. Even though my friend was prepared to pay the full amount in a lump sum, (the owner) wouldnt do the deal. NO FOREIGNERS Nowhere in the world is perfect, and everywhere is going to have pros and cons for expats. Interesting post. Why not? (Though being married to a Japanese man probably plays a part in that.) American freedom from discrimination is cool, but i think sometimess it messes minds a little. So its good to know that I wasnt totally off-base with my observations. We just ignore it. I did. Dont forget Japan medical healthcare is a hit and miss and their mental health care industry doesnt even exist. Hello everyone. Vietnam bans 'Barbie' movie over South China Sea map | CNN This is simply my impression of the place given my time here, and some of the dealbreakers that mean Japan is not a place I believe Ill ever want to call home. Also Women may work fewer hours which makes Mens longer hours seem shorter. Then you would really be isolated just like you like it. But is it worth it? They compare their own country with European countries, When thousands of bachelors and . Thats justice. A lot of young people like you think Japan is their Avalon, but as soon as they can live in Japan in the real Japan I mean almost all of them go quickly distressed and go back to their home country, broken in many ways. Instead they said Nora, we would really like to tell you youre wrong. She is also strongly considering revoking her Japanese citizenship and becoming Canadian, Hi Dave, And Im pretty sure you dont even shave your face or know anything about personal hygiene, both of which will everyone in Japan be intolerant to. But about a month in, I started having a crisis of dislike with the place. Another 10 Reasons Not to Move to Japan - YouTube If youre interested in reading more about the country, I definitely recommend this book. Because of kinky places like maid cafes and weirdly dressed odd looking girl-like women walking around the place. This is something that happened when I went by myself to look for a rental property at a real estate agents office. ), nor Japanese women are not exploited. Japans misogyny is also one of the most extreme in the world and definitely way more than any advanced countrys which is a shame and it runs apparently in a wider range than their marketing including in the form of sexual harassment in work space or elsewhere and even domestic abuse. Girl Power means something completely in different in Japan. There are no markups or hidden fees; just a small, fair transfer fee thats spelled out upfront. I grew up in Canada in the 80s and 90s (born in 87) and saw way more racism there in any given week than in a decade in Japan. Outside of Moving to Japan is an incredibly exciting prospect. Your post made me think about the differences between touring a country and living in one. Are you not ashamed of yourself and your lies and to attack knowledgable decent people only because of your own delusions and complexes? And as some commenters have already observed, these are some pretty harsh and one-sided observations. You went on rant about the US and Westerners (which is fine, whatever) and then concluded that the author should not criticize another country or people. So Im glad you didnt try! I am not an expert on this matter and really just want as many perspectives as possible. Top 10 Reasons Not to Move to Japan - YouTube If you choose to use a bank or traditional transfer service to move your money across international lines, youre likely to end up paying for a 4-5% markup on the exchange rate -- basically a hidden fee used by banks to make a profit off your money transfers. Btw I think the medical exams and tattoo thing are related. i think white people who enter japan should really watch the movie Lost in translation, then if they dont find any political problem in the film, they should be banned to enter japan(or any asian country). I could tell you many reasons I could never live in those countries Japan is not a perfect country and some of the things you say are out of discussion, but its the closest to perfection Ive experienced. Moreover the Japanese government has been found guilty of funding an agency to scan and erase bad comments and web pages that could damage the Japans image. I have quite often seen some westerners say things like I actually read a book about Japanese culture so I can understand how to deal with Japanese businesses.. To this I always feel like wow, do you think you can understand completely about another culture just by reading a book? Perhaps I just notice these culture/value clashes more when I travel, since my eyes are open to everything and Im generally more observant. With the tax money of Japanese. Typical Western person not only criticizing but also patronizing a foreign culture. 95% of court cases are solved by Plea bargains where Prosecutors threaten people with a 10 year sentence and people plead guilty to a 2 year sentence even if they arent Guilty The fruits at the supermarket look stunning and perfect but anyone of those massive apples is pretty damn tasteless. It can be for the adventure of exploring a new language, world, food tastes, architecture (for urban and rural), overall culture, and way of life. I top up my identity card to use the gym, parking is Epay with travelcards. Everything just felt so big so beautiful on the outside yet so fake! ive been to akihabara and i know what youre talking about but, not that im totally indifferent, it just doesnt bother me this much there certainly are places like this in europe and america too. I dont have an opinion about South Korea since I havent been there, but I will say that in chatting with an expat here in Japan who has also lived in South Korea, he says the two countries share many of the same traits. The lie flat rebellion in younger people in Japan, Korea and China is the first awakening Ive seen in decades and its a great movement of common sense and logic. Indias Northern Himalayas has better coverage as does almost anywhere in Instagram-crazy Indonesia (the poor unbanked use Gojek to catch rides) etc. WHY? Should I Move To Japan? - 13 Reasons Why Not Its really creepy. I know someone whos Japanese husband avoided the medicals because he knew his hidden tattoo would be reported to his workplace. Youre totally right, Japanese are not as polite and honorable as they might think and you can discover that easily, at least as soon as when they feel you are not a threat or a benefit for them in any way. There are theories that this culture of overworking and being owned by employers is in part what has inspired the over-the-top and often seedy outlets for people to vent some steam; anime and manga, maid and butler cafes, slot machines and pachinko parlours, and the full range of kink subculture that I didnt dare explore. Furthermore you are a male and thus might not be as privy with sexual harassment as women are.not least but last if you miss on the amount of prostitutes in Japan then obviously you are probably yet another jap that only see what it only affect them. They want to help in whatever way possible. thanks for sharing this article. I abhor guns culture in media and shootings in the US, but I also try to understand the second amendment and its historical meaning, before saying I am disgusted and I hate the US. Its why Im always loath to answer the question what is your favourite place in the world.. Work Culture. Then when I told them my husband is also not Japanese, their attitude got even harsher. So, you're thinking of moving to Japan. However you are right that this poster completely misunderstood the weird way Japanese can use eggo and mistranslated Girl Power in their initial article. But also, bad for you! Since they have an outlet(both male and female; surprise, literally every human is a horny beastial creature that should have been put down in the Showa era that knows how to use an abacus for some reason) for their human impulses and urges and salarymen DO NOT and they would fear looking like otaku which is what leads them to molest women as a convoluted but surprisingly common way to get back at their black company physically and emotionally abusive boss because they have no other outlet. Having said that, it is certainly a fascinating country to visit, but I will definitely pass on a chance of living there. I accept every culture and country for what it is and what it represents. Has this friend ever even BEEN to the states? On the other hand, I dont agree with your opinion about Akihabara. Then theres the inside of the crappy boxes, with the plastic attachment thats supposed to be wash basin/kitchen? Women are still discriminated sometimes, we earn less money, we are groped in trains and on streets, we are treated like dirt by men who believe theyre perfect catholics. In certain industries, like the tech sector, booms are starting to happen. Japan is home to some of the worlds largest cities, as well as quiet, serene countryside. My wife (who is Japanese too) had to open her eyes about her country. Especially as a teacher of high schoolers, it was awful to see how they were expected to act, and to accept their sexual exploitationas well as my own as a foreign fetish for most men I met. It is certainly possible to live and travel in Japan with tattoos I have a few friends who do it. Afterall, if you want to visit a country as a tourist, you have the obligation to act the way they want you to, to a certain extent of course, but never the otherway round. Actually one could classify it as annoyingly pretentious. Corporate lobbying that calls for war so that they can move the stock market with their insider knowledge and gain control of the worlds resources (90% of stock profits go to the top 5% of investors) Ukraine war latest: Kyiv makes cluster bombs pledge; Wagner fighters They said that the landlord would not rent the apartment to a foreigner. You are free to write your own blog and vent about the US as much as you want. 1. Between the two of us, we've lived in two countries, two Canadian provinces, and four U.S. states. In 2016 there was a famous suicide attempt by a young woman who was overworked and felt trapped in her job, just two years out of school. Ultimately the problem is Japan governs T is shit! Overtime is simply an expectation, and part of the Japanese business culture. As for the 2011 disasters, you said there was NO crime ! I was shocked seeing Tokyo apartment blocks right underneath the motorway. You could try it out for a while and see what happens. They have an ageing population Japan has one of the world's best life expectancies (nearly 84 years), which sounds wonderful. If youre not a fan of secondhand smoke, Japan may not be for you. Japan didnt become a popular country for expats for no reason. If you enjoy working with kids, this could be an easy way to make Japan your new home. But is it worth it? Reasons to Move to Japan Besides the undeniable call of the East, or Japan, in this case, there are multiple reasons that people from the US choose to move to Japan. I feel in terms of Asia Japan has the best media influence in the world in *Asia. Are you serious about it? Overtime is rare. Great post Nora. tbh one of the problem japan has is these entitled white expats who unconsciously has massive superior complex toward asian culture. 10 Inspiring Reasons to Move to Japan - The Anxious Travelers Japan Life & Culture Move to Japan 10 Inspiring Reasons to Move to Japan by Jeanne July 9, 2021 1 comment We're an adventurous household. But a lot of people want to move here. Nobody was allowed in, or out, of the country. I have a small tattoo on my sternum. Kind of like Englands Home Counties only the Chiltern Hills are far more beautiful (not outstanding locally). This may sound counter-intuitive to many people, but many social studies did not find a positive correlation between the porn and violence against women in a long term population study (Very short term yes, but it gets corrected from social cues). If people are nice enough to speak English to you speak slowly. Instead its all focused inwards. Hi David, This is especially troubling as substance abuse in Japan is very low and we know in most of the world most people commit suicide when they are not thinking straight (drugs or alcohol). Throw in a requirement to stay at your first job out of school for at least three years (so as not to brand yourself as an unreliable employee), and you get suicides. They make it a breeze to get around, even between cities. not dangerously, just people who are raised in such developed countries might have a bit of a different approach to other places. With this sort of slogan, youd think its for something empowering to women. 4. Hi Emi, Hi Nora, I wanted to thank you for putting all the uncomfortable feelings Ive had over the years into actual words for me to really understand and process what have been bothering me so much living here in Japan. He said once you get out of the city (especially Tokyo), locals are quite curious about visitors/foreigners and try to be helpful. Never mind who or what her best little friend is supposed to be(! We dont want to be part of your backwards society but you cant stop us from speaking about how inbreed Japan really is. In America, theyd say the liberated views are the cause of this but Japan is more conservative yet experiencing the same. Right or wrong? Ive been told that an essential traditional Japanese cultural experience is visiting the onsen (hot springs) and/or sento (public baths). I was questioned by my friend in my home country about a famous traditional Japanese sex service called women body Sushi() which was embarrassing and disgusting. Probably a lot more, but I cant think of more than these. Idiot. For you to resonate with my outsider observations, especially as a native Japanese person, is BIG for me. I see myself as a pretty openminded traveller and Japan has always been a must see place for me. Some of the reasons are easy to see, while others might surprise you. But there is no way that Japan is known for gross inefficiency and I feel offended and I dont know why you thought that way. First let me say this of course sexism and xenophobia are there IF YOU GO LOOKING FOR IT. I really hope the Japanese ideology and cultural interpellation changes in the courses of the future. To me who love conversation, this country is getting more and more miserable as days gone by. Well said. Hi Sam, How to move to Japan: step by step guide - Wise I think there would be the same reaction from many Japanese companies and institutions! Chinese, Vietnamese, Thai workers in Japan feel grateful about living and working there. trying to stay sane and convulsion free! And repulsive areas do exist in many smaller Western cities, including the U.S. Its not a white thing, Japanese hate Asians too Koreans (ex-colony), Filipinos, Thai, Chinese (the most?). At best, its a response to and rebellion against the rampant exploitation of women. Tattoos ! But in reality, youre right, and I dont apologize for standing up for womens rights and equitable treatment. I dont know if youre asking Kazu above for their perspective (they obviously dont appreciate mine LOL), or if you want my perspective. Potential reasons for this are as diverse and proliferous as the people who provide them: From sociologists to psychologists and from law enforcement to the average person on the street, everyone has a different explanation. Exit any one of these stores and walk down the street and youll be approached by women in a slutty maid outfits trying to lure you into their maid cafes a place where people (mostly men) go to be doted on by scantily clad women in an over-the-top cutesy-pie (dare I say little girl??) Its almost a different world from SEA where people are generally laid back and pleasant to be around. Heck, I balk at the working culture in North America, which is nothing in comparison to Japan. Something older Japanese are wary about as then their very flawed ways of living will be exposed, rather ruthless at times. But strangely, foreign press did decide to ignore these numerous cases. I think thats true civilization. So I guess this cultural attention to beauty has contributed to a generally beautiful people. 12 Reasons NOT to Move to Japan - Abroad in Japan - Podtail 20 Reasons Why You Shouldn't Travel To Japan - Travel Lexx Better than home Depending on the country from which you hail, Japan can be a much safer, healthier and even cheaper option than home. shame shame. There are comments about how lazy westerners are because they cannot get along as a group. Coming on to Ok no litter but plenty of weeds.oh the weedsno grass just more concrete; over-rated Sakura in scrappy Ueno Park (better cherryblossom and parks Londons regular burbs); yet more carparks next to Hokkaidos lakes; monstrous USSR-style hotels left abandonedAnimals mistreated in Japans best zoo (they looked as hungry as I felt) which resembles a toilet in Grimsby for visitor appeal; brown bears in a UNSECO-listed Nat Park only you cant see them as theyve shut the electrified boardwalk as the bears were sighted (but hey eat Hokkaido ice cream!), even though thats what you fucking went there for..(I couldnt face Bear Mountain after the zoo).
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